vision ..

Where do you see yourself 3-5-10 years from now? It seems like in order to fill any important position you must answer this question. Personally I understand the importance of having a long term goal-vision but life often doesn't turn out for the better so it is important to keep away from what Albert Ellis called "mustabatory" beliefs. This is the belief that something must happen in your life for it be meaningful. For example I must get an A in this class or my life is over. I think having a vision for the future is very important, as long as that vision is taken with a grain of salt, and that the person knows his happiness does not depend only on it coming true. If I must look to accomplish something here's what it would be... First dance salsa again .. seems like a simple enough task but I had a pretty bad accident and had to stop lessons last year. The doctor said it'll take a few more years until I can get back to such physical activity. In order to go through with it in the future I try to do as much exercise as I am allowed, I also try not to forget all those years of learning by lightly practicing. My next vision.. and one I am very determined at reaching.. is to gain a good position in a top advertising firm in the next 10 years. To attain this I am in Baruch now, obviously, and I plan to go for my masters (not too sure where yet) in advertising. Also I have a strong artistic background and I'm learning many skills outside of college that will help me along the way (like graphic design).
Here is a 2 page magazine spread I just made for my G.D. class..
Most important on my list is to have a family within 10 years. I know in America getting married and having children isn't usually something people aspire to, but I do not want to wait until I am old enough to be my kid's grandmother to birth them. When it comes to this vision, there really is no preparation or lesson I can take to help me get closer to it. The first step is to find the right person to start a family with.